Huy
It
was about seven months ago. I got to know about this kid on my bus since the
starting of the year. I did not know much about him at the start, only his name
and his class. He had glasses, with mid length hair. From his face, I could
tell that he was an Asian. After a few conversations with him, I discovered
that he was Vietnamese, and that he was 8 days older than me despise the fact
that he was a head shorter than me. Every one that did not know about his age
must think that he was 6 or so. His actions, his thoughts, the way he spoke and
his physical appearance made him look like a 6 year old. I treated him more
like a friend back then, a dear friend. He was kind, but mentally and
physically weak.
I had been quite a while since I tried
to make him stronger, both mentally and physically. I did by training him; make
him run laps, telling him stuff that could make him become brave. I thought
that I would succeed, but god I was wrong. Every time I tried to trigger the
anger, the strong side of him, I failed. He just cried off; never get mad like
what the other teenagers do. I finally figured out why. His parents were behind
all of this. Since Huy started to understand languages, his parents were too
over protective about him. They never let him walk to my house alone even
though it was just a 3 minute walk. They never let him go to the deep end of
the swimming pool even with a life jacket on. They never let him take off his
sweater when he was playing basketball and was almost dying from the heat. They
were too over protective. I knew that those parents just wanted to keep their
children safe, but what they had done was the opposite. In the future, Huy
would turn into an adult with no social ability if they keep on doing this to
him. I was a good friend. I tried not to ruin the friendship between Huy and I,
while training him making him stronger, and have more ability.
He was a good friend, but he had hard
time understanding. He could not understand my actions, my words, and my
thoughts. He did not understand why I needed to trigger the angry side of him.
I wanted him to see how strong he could be, not the weak and useless side. We
joked around like friends, but other times I was his teacher. I was his teacher
in basketball, swimming, bravery and many things. In the past 2 months, I
succeeded in triggering his bravery, but it had not fully ignited yet. I would
not stop trying, until he becomes a strong person, like the others that I know
of, and like me.
I knew that I could have been nice to
him and all, but I explained to him. Being nice was how you break someone,
because they would always expect someone to be there for them. Being mean was
how you make someone stronger or break them, because the ones that wanted to
become better, would try; the ones that were weak, would fall and break. Being
mean was how you make someone strong. A good example would be the military
forces. He claimed that he understood, but he did not.
I hoped that he could see this one
day, and then he would understand me.
Good. But video today?
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